How many times have you heard someone say “I just love talking to you!” only to realize ”wait a second, I haven’t really done very much talking here?“ Plenty. Read the rest of this entry »
Obsession is my middle name. I’ve always been the type to get far too into things. When others like things, I love things. That being said, music always has been a huge passion of mine. I grew up in Alice, Texas, listening to Corpus Christi’s local radio stations playing rock and alternative music, and I remember loving the earlier songs of Matchbox Twenty, Everclear and the Foo Fighters. These bands (some still popular today) made a huge impact on my life.
It doesn’t seem so long ago I sat in News 101 at the University of Missouri School of Journalism. What I learned there, though, is still sticking after all these years. Those daily tests over The Associated Press (AP) Stylebook helped prepare me for many things.
TSTC Publishing, the publishing arm of Texas State Technical College (TSTC), recently presented the Texas Youth Commission (TYC) more than 200 books to the McLennan County State Juvenile Correctional Facility Unit 2 in Mart. Read the rest of this entry »
Humans love to talk, but not everything that comes out of someone’s mouth is considered communication, and not all communication comes from the mouth. The words we speak only scratch the surface of how we communicate. Voice tone and body language plays a much larger role than people realize. So instead of thinking of what to say, concentrate on how to say it. Not only is effective communication vital for a healthy personal life, it is absolutely essential to succeed in the professional world. Communication shows up as one of the most sought-after skills employers want when interviewing prospective employees.
I used to be a poor communicator. I spat out my words as if people would just walk away if I couldn’t get my message out fast enough. I mumbled when I talked. I slouched with my hands stuffed comfortably in my pockets. Other than being told to “stand up straight”, I never really realized that these bad habits were adversely affecting the way people perceived and responded to me. Soon enough, I read up on communication and how body language and vocal tonality played a much more prominent role in getting my message across than I had realized. I also noted the signs of poor body language and made it a personal goal to correct these mistakes immediately.
It didn’t happen overnight, but after several months of paying attention and reprimanding myself, I started to get results. I noticed how people paid more attention and had greater interest in what I had to say. I also noticed everyone else and how I could tell what they were feeling based on their body language. It was almost like having a superpower! The confidence I gained helped to propel myself forward and talk to people I never thought I would have, and the best part is people are usually completely open to talking with strangers. It’s just up to you to make the first move.
There is a plethora of online resources on self-improvement, namely communication skills. Body Language shows eighteen ways to practice and improve positive body language. It also helps to recognize negative body language so you can avoid it and recognize how others feel. This Speaking site contains tips and exercises for all occasions. Even skimming some of the articles can have a profound impact. This Communication site links straight to an article on how others perceive you. It’s a great thing to think about in addition to the countless other helpful articles available.
People become at ease when they realize you are comfortable with yourself. It only takes one person to spread a positive vibe, and it’s catching. Be that person. Learn the truth. Be your best self. Look at yourself in the mirror, grab a tape recorder, or ask a friend for an honest opinion. You’ve got to do this sometime. It might as well be now.
Critical thinking, a skill utilized by the most intelligent and proficient people, can help elevate your career path as well as your life. The act of thinking about thinking allows you to weigh all of your options and predict the consequences of your actions. There is not a single aspect of your life that critical thinking will not improve. Along with your education and career, your personal finances, family and social life, and overall happiness hinge on your ability of higher-level reasoning and deduction. Humans have built cities, mapped the DNA strand, and created network computers. It is in our nature to figure things out. It may not be the easiest road, but to unplug from the masses and use your brain to the best of its power, its highest function, is to realize your true potential.
Taking Charge: Your Education, Your Career, Your Life contains a chapter that describes the critical thinking process, outlines tips on how to effectively use it, and mentions all the advantages that come from critical thinking. The clever combination of psychology, logic, and social behaviors helps you understand the method itself along with the reasons why it works so well. Hints and tricks from professors, philosophers, and famous writers offer a spark of character that will enlighten the mind.
The chapter’s debunking of popular myths on beliefs can really awaken you to your true awareness. Many people hold solid beliefs that their family peers, or society ingrained upon them. Although many beliefs hold society together, some can hinder intellectual and emotional growth. Once freed from limited lines of thinking, your intellect can spread its wings and lead you to unimaginable places.
When faced with a difficult decision, even some of the smartest people clam up, confused on what action they should take. Knowing that you can choose your own destiny will help decimate that fear. Telling yourself that there are several solutions to your problem will give you the authority to think clearly and choose the best possible solution.
It feels empowering to make effective decisions. With every exercise of choice, you will gain more confidence in your decision-making ability. It is always wise to weigh the pros and cons of every decision. Imagining the future is a uniquely human ability, so use it to your best advantage. Whether or not you like the potential outcome of your choice, your logic will usually give you a good idea of what to expect. Going against one’s instinct and making a poor choice has been the folly of many a man. Choose wisely, and soar to heights you have never thought possible.